Sunday, March 28, 2010

The Phone Call That Started it All

16 months ago I was laying in bed and the thought popped in my head about having weight loss surgery-- would my insurance cover it? Would I ever do it? The next day I picked up the phone called the insurance got the ok, then went online and called the office with the prettiest website (yes, that really is how I picked my surgeon, sad but true!). Fast forward 9 months and I'm talking to Jen (the office manager at said surgeon's office) and she asks me about coming to work with the office. Fast forward another 6 months (yes, it really has been almost 6 months) to Friday... I will set the scene for you... I'm at work and get a phone call from Bry saying he had picked up the certified letter from the post office and it was from our landlord, he was raising the rent. Grr.

Now, first things first, Bry and I really have been trying to live within our means and stick to somewhat of a budget, this leaves no room for "rent increase". The increase wasn't much, but like I said we have a budget and needed to stick to it. The straw that broke this camels back was that the landlord mailed us the paperwork and then said we had 4 days to let him know, by March 31 if we weren't staying it would be our 30 day notice. What?! 4 days?! That just seemed rude to me! So I get off the phone and casually mention to Jen what was going on who then tells me that Melissa over in scheduling at the hospital had a house to rent. I email Melissa, she sends pics and I fall in love with the house. No cost is mentioned so I figured it was out of my budget. I asked Melissa how much and that this was the amount we needed to stay in, so if it was more then please let me down easy... I get an email back and actually, rent is $10 cheaper than what I pay now! For a bigger, newer home! I get excited and set up a time to see the house the next day. That night Bry and I prayed fervently that if this was what we were to do for our family that we would know. That we would be presented with an opportunity we couldn't turn down.
Yesterday we went through the house and fell in love. It's really everything I've ever wanted in a house. The back yard is beautiful. The great room is great. Bry loves the surround sound... it's a win, win, people! We continue to talk all the while I'm scared to ask deposits and hoops to be jumped through. Melissa then asks if we like the house and when we want to move in. That's it?! Wow! It was seriously too easy. The Lord knew we needed to know and we needed to know quick.
I'm so torn. I LOVE this new house. LOVE it. We attended our new ward today and people were really friendly. It was odd not to see familiar faces. I actually got to go to Sunday school and Relief Society. I cried during sacrament thinking of saying good bye to my sweet ward. But then I remembered, I'm moving 5 miles away. People who love me will still invite me to their parties, or to go out. They will drive the 5 miles to come see me. And I will most defiantly drive it to see them.
I really am excited for this opportunity to get a new start. I've needed change. I didn't know what kind though. I'm excited for my kids to meet new friends and to have a backyard to play in with grass! I'm excited Bry won't harass me for surround sound anymore. More than anything, I'm thankful that the Lord showed His tender mercy to a child who has had wavering faith lately, took her in His arms and showed her the path that needed to be taken. And it all started with one phone call.

10 comments:

Lena said...

It is amazing to see how the Lord can bring so many wonderful things! I don't believe in coincidences in life...it is always meant to be!

AB said...

I love seeing your testimony in action. Makes my heart smile.

When do we get pictures of the new place?

Jenny Knudsen said...

I am very happy for you and very sad for me :) I like who I am when I am around you. You make me happy and you also ground me. I would drive 60 miles to see you anytime. I am just glad that I won't have to. :) You are a very special person in my life and I am glad that we don't have to breakup ;) Call me anytime friend and I will help you whenever you need it.

Crissie said...

Sounds like it was all meant to be. I'm happy for you guys. We will miss you. Good job in sticking to a budget. We're trying hard to do the same thing. Have you read Dave Ramsey's "Total Money Makeover"? It is a MUST read!! Fantastic book! Good luck with everything!

The McNeil Family said...

It is so comforting that the lord is always there for us no matter how we are doing in our lives. It sounds like it all fell together like a puzzle. YOu sweet smile will be missed. Thanks for always saying hi.

Katie said...

YAY! How exciting for your sweet family!

Cluff Family said...

We are really going to miss, but we are happy for you. Post pictures of the house soon and don't forget a picture of your husband enjoying his new surround sound.

Never Wrong said...
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B said...

Its little things like this... realizations, comments, faith, honesty, humility, humor that make me fall in love all over again with the woman I am lucky enough to call my wife, mother of my children, eternal companion, and Best Friend!

Anonymous said...

Hello??? I'm never ever, never ever NOT going to invite you to Bunco!! Hello??? you are such a wonderful person and I'm truly blessed to have you in my life, and lucky to be able to give you crap anytime, and know you take it with love & then dish it right back!!! I'll miss you girl!! please send me your new address, so I can drop by unexpected & see your place. Also, my sister is moving back to that area too. Maybe you'll be in the same ward?